I usually blog about life as me, Venya, but today I’m going to blog about sex. There are so many stories daily about women, children and few men that are being raped, sexually abused or molested. I am compelled to give my opinion to the world, you may not care but I’m putting it out there. I feel I have a solution.
By nature I’m a very sexual person, and I’m not shy to talk about the taboo subject. Being an Indian girl from a “decent” family I was told not to talk about such things. Today as an adult woman, living my own life I talk and discuss sex freely with like minded individuals.
This brings me to my topic today, sexual abuse/frustration. Not mine but others. I will also use India for my examples as it’s my home country. Most of the articles I come across and read are usually women/children being sexually abused in India. Some of the victims are as young as 18 months and others are married to the perpetrator. I have racked my brain as to why sex is so forbidden in India and cannot come to a real conclusion. Sex is a human need and desire which translates into a beautiful thing when it’s consensual. I do know that people are very sexually frustrated there and in turn don’t know what to do with themselves so they abuse others sexually.
After talking to some people from India I have come to these conclusions:
- Everyone is doing it
- Some are doing it with family members
- Some are doing it with animals
- Some are doing it forcefully
- Some are doing it consensually
- Some love it
- Some hate it
- Some don’t care for it but feel obliged to engage in it to prove their love
- Most are hiding they are doing it, even the married couples
- Plenty of people enjoy doing it but won’t speak about it openly
- Even the ones doing it are pointing the finger at others for engaging in such acts
- You are punished severely if anyone finds out your doing it before marriage
Of course, people are doing it! Otherwise the population wouldn’t be so high! A billion people didn’t fall from the sky!
What bothers me are why are so many people sexually frustrated (that turns abusive) if the country is clearly populated so well? I think, because no one is allowed to really talk openly about it.
I have a solution, and I would like to hear everyone’s thoughts on this.
Why doesn’t India (or any other country) give out free sex toys as part of a mental and physical health initiative? I’m not talking oils, feathers and rings. I’m talk about a vibrator for women and an artificial vagina for the men. When the urge comes on (and it does, we are mammals) we should be able to bring out our toy and please ourselves. This way no man will never be without hopefully less frustrated = less forced sex. And the women can please them selves as they wish without being labelled or blackmailed for being a human with needs.
Think about it, if a man who is really needing sex can resort to pleasuring himself with an artificial vagina wouldn’t that save some poor child/women’s body/dignity/self esteem?
I truly feel a system like this will bring down the monstrous behaviour that men are showing towards females/males of all ages. There is no reason an 18 month baby girl should be raped. If that man had that handy vagina, he could have had his release in a less destructive way. If an artificial vagina can save lives, give the men 2 or 3 of them!
Just like birth control should be available and free, vibrators and artificial vaginas should be made readily available at no cost. It should be available through a Dr.
This may sound insane but I think I’m onto something here. What do you think?